We have to make judgment calls all the time.
We are not to condemn other people, but we have to judge their actions. Have to evaluate and use discernment.
Love the sinner, hate the sin. There is no precise scriptural reference, but it is a reasonable derivative. Love people—do what is best for them, regardless of how it makes you FEEL—hate sin, don’t condone it, don’t be “tolerant” of it. Easy to say, difficult to live it.
God hates sin. God loves people and commands us to love Him and love all other people.
All means all.
Again, easy to say, much more difficult to do it!